Kern County Adult Protective Services (APS) is confidential but you can call our 24 hour line to report concerns at 661-868-1006. APS may not be able to release information but can take information in.
If he is an adult then they are required by law to keep his information private (HIPPA act). Furthermore, if there are any problems between you two, he has every right to maintain relationships with whomever he chooses. The greatest act of love on your part is to allow him to experience life on life's terms.
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