You can BBQ, and there's no charge for parking. There is a charge for camping and you need a Suffolk County Green Key for that. A green key is $15.00 for 3 years and camping is $15.00 a night. You have to be a Suffolk County resident for the green key, but they have non-resident camping rates as well. There are picnic areas throughout the park.
I believe you can bbq, they have bathrooms, picnic tables available. It's free weekdays but weekends there's a fee but not sure what. I just know it's less than 16 dollars. If your already a member it's much less
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