when doctor try to help people to get weigh loss done and they refuse them because of there medal illness and never met the person how can they turn people away

Weight loss surgery has a lot of preparation and testing and if you already said you don't want it then the doctor won't want to go through everything that you you need to do just for you to say that you don't want the surgery. I suggest that you do the research and then make an informed decision.

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