Is a temple marriage and sealing still considered to be valid if the couple has been divorced, and one of them, (me) has since left the church? I voluntarily had my name removed from the records. No hard feelings folks. Just wasn't for me.

Reason I asked, is I recently found out that her former husband now deceased, had wanted to be sealed. She told him that they could not because she claims that I refused to have our sealing undone. This is not true, I was never asked. If I had been, I would have gladly signed anything she needed.

That's a good question... I think the only scenario where it would really matter is if your former wife is still a member and wants to be sealed to a new husband. I would assume if you had your name removed from church records the sealing would be cancelled, but she could check on that with her bishop or temple office to make sure it happened.