My condolences to you and your loved ones. Yes, I agree, you should check with the vendor regarding the whereabouts/status of your order. Sorry to hear this happened to you during your bereavement. Be blessed!
I would follow up with the vendor you ordered bit from, as well as who placed the wreath at the memorial for you. You can also call the foundation, but they may not monitor the placement of wreaths, & arrangements. My condolences for your loss.
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