Can you make an appointment for extended stay tourist Visa at the SF consulate? I am a US citizen . Also can you fly without Visa and go to the Embassy in Manila and get Visa there?

Last I heard, it was.30 days. There are no appointments for Visa and you can get a Visa extension in the Philippines. If you can make it to the Consulate, i would go.

You can stay up to 59 days without a visa in the Phillipines. You can apply for an extended stay at the SF consulate and you will need to double check with the consulate directly to inquire about obtaining the extended visa while in Manila.