Change name first with Social security...then at least 72 hrs.later can go to DMV. If making your drivers license Federal compliant (Real ID), then bring the following: Original Birth cert. or certified copy(no abstracts)... AND... Original marriage cert. or certified copy... AND... Social Security Card... AND... 2 proofs of Residence.. acceptable proofs of address would be... utility bills, bank stmt., insurance bill/stmt., medical bill, rental/lease agreement, or car registration.... If Not doing Real ID, and you just want to renew or update your non-compliant drivers license to show your new last name, then just bring the original marriage cert. after you have changed it with social security.
I believe that she would need two forms of government ID(ssc, passport, birth certificate, or credit card). I'm not sure about the marriage certificate but I would also bring two other options just in case they ask for two of those. BTW, congratulations on the wedding!
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