Thanks for all the answers guys
yes but nothing too big/bulky (like big wings or stilts), also no masks
Yes. They may just ask you to remove a fully covered mask before entering like they did me.
Yes, you can attend in costume
I would recommend giving them a call. I don't think any of the guests were in a costume. Update here if you did happen to give them a call. Other people might find it helpful.
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