You can see the pad from the Gate House. If you rent the shelter at the splash pad, you can park in the lot right at the pad. If you are just wanting to splash, parking is at the top of the hill where the volley ball courts are. Signs are posted for splash pad parking. It's been a few weeks since I've been. It appeared that they were in the process of building a second parking lot near the pad on my last visit. Edit : Since posting this, the new parking lot for the splash pad is complete.
At the entrance where you pay you will see it
Thru the parking toll and look to your left
Park in the golfing parking lot, its for the venue too. Its on the left of the parking lot. You can't miss it.
When you first go in the park go up a little and to the left they put a new parking area there or you can go all through the park near the exit but can only park in that area if you rent the pavilion
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