There is music but they choose it. Last Sunday they did an 80's themed skate
We take my daughter there a lot. You may be able to ask to play something but I'm not positive. They do have themed nights that they post often. But usually it's just random music the whole time.
Yes, there is music in the background. I think you can request songs. Starland let's you choose the songs though.
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