My husband is a vet he doesn't want to get help for his ptsd and bipolar...he lies that he been taking pills and blames everything on me he lies to the professionals and make it seem like he good but at home he not I need help what should I do?

You sound overwhelmed. You should call the VA or see a therapist for your own mental health first. They can give you guidance on how to deal with it. As for your husband, you can't really do much for people who refuse to get help.

Call the VA hospital or HR and ask how you could help him. My husband just got home and is recovering from an infection. EVERYONE was genuinely intetested in his care. Thank you VA!

You may want to see if he is willing to see a councillor or talk to someone who can relate to him.

He is your husband so you can take me to force him but normally, someone will get help when they want the help.

Ok i will and thank you for your help