Quite the conundrum there. I would send 1 person ahead early in a cab or Uber. Once that person secures the tickets and parking passes, you can meet him on the street on your way in... Shoreline Security will not let you into the VIP parking without a pass, even if your the Headliner... Enjoy the show.
Unfortunately you will get a lot of traffic anyway, but when you're close, you will see signs for the VIP parking lot entrance. Depending from Wich direction you're coming the directions will be different, so is best to pay attention on the signs. The VIP parking lot itself is right in front of the main entrance of the venue.
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