How would I go about donating Christmas presents to the people who are at this shelter? Or maybe finding out what items are needed or can be accepted?

I would ask what they need..

The only thing that turned away from going to the lydia house was that they don't accept you with boys over 11 years old. They told me i would have to find somewhere for my son to stay. I don't have anywhere for him to go and as a mother I don't want to leave my son behind. Just something to consider.

You can donate to this shelter they mainly need clothes and shoes for men there a womans shelter across the street called the lady of hope

Contact them directly at their business number.

All the comments/reactions are spot on.