First....mourn. take the time to grieve, be in prayer and seek others to pray with and for you ( I'm praying for you). Everyone grieves differently and for different lengths of time. Do not measure yourself against others. Go to church, don't forsake the assembly or distant yourself from others. If you're up to it, even going out for a cup of coffee with friends. Do not try to enter another relationship until you feel you're fully ready. My daughter became a widow at a very young age.... she's gone thru this now for going on 7 years and is just now ready to date. But instead of just going out with anyone shes been in prayer that if God has someone for her that He would provide the right Godfilled man. Just please remember that God loves you and He will get you thru this time. If I can help in anyway please dont hesitate to reach out! God bless and keep you!!
Thanks for your reply. There is a lot of preaching about adultery and seeing or sleeping with another with out getting married, there is no one preaching to the widower who do not want to get married a second time, why is that? I have no intention to getting married again,,,,,,,because I want to be with my first love when my number is called after this life is over. Friend yes, second marriage, is out of the question. This is what I am struggling with! Need information?????
Thanks! Your answer is awaiting moderation.