I would definitely call them ahead of time, also get the name of the person you are speaking with, to be clear on their policy, if you get a different story at the check in desk then you have leverage to ask for what you want.
Yes
They'll let you save seats but they get weird if people aren't there when it gets closer to start time, they'll pressure you. Probably depends on how close you are to the front
Yes you can get In and save seats to theyll even write your name down and the people you're meeting can come in and give your name and theyll bring them to you
I would call the club
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