Can i stuff at a different location then where i got the bear?

Yes

Yes you can. My kids got some for Christmas, unstuffed. We went to the BaB near us and they stuffed it no question

I dont see why not as long as u have reciept. It's like a gift then.

If you want to do that order online and state you don't want animal suffed

Not sure. You can always call and ask first