Yes a 4 year old can do snow tubing, I was there last week end and my son who will be 4 years on the 26th went snow tubing. Make sure your son can ski or have proper guidance.I am sorry I would not be able to help with the other questions. Enjoy your holiday.
I recommend you call Montage Mountain directly to get all these answers. Happy holidays.
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