If I go alone for my own birthday, are they going to force me to have a loud public song and dance? I'm an introvert, but I'd like an excuse to make the trek over from NJ to try this place.

To add to everyone's comment above, you need to go on your actual birthday to eat for free without bringing a cake. If you go 3 days before or after your birthday, you will need to bring an 8" birthday cake to eat for free.

The day of your birthday you don’t need to bring anybody ( 3 days before and 3 days after you need to bring a party of 4 no cake needed as stated on their website

Yes you need at lease 4 people to eat for free for the birthday special I went yesterday

I think they had a sign that you need a certain number of people to get the free meal now

No, they don't sing unless you ask for that service. They do have a birthday special. The birthday person eats for free as long as there is another paying adult.

The birthday song is definitely a part of the birthday discount.

Great, different kind of BBQ Steaks, all you can eats.

No

Peace and God's Blessings to you and yours. It's not mandatory that they have a public song and it dance for you. if you tell them that you don't want all the fanfare, they would definitely respect that.