Is most of the staff normally rude like they've been to me and my family? Do they normally tell people who live in their van they are not a priority and people who live with others are?

Honestly some of the staff have been rude but others have not. All i know is my experiences from going thru the process and living there. I just literally left 3 weeks ago.

My bf gets out of jail April 2019 I'm moving in monady too umom once he out can he come live with me or what do I need too do

Did you talk to people at UMOM or the family housing hub?

We re literally living in our van with absolutely no help and got nothing but attitudes from most of the staff