I know it says no outside food or drinks but can i bring a cake or cupcakes for my sons bday? I plan to rent 2 to 4 lanes and order food and drinks from their snack bar on Sunday

Yeah they are very accommodating. If you have a cake or something it should be fine. But definitely call first.

That shouldn't be a problem just inform them about the birthday party & they'll set it up have fun.

Case by case scenarios

I think I've done that before, but you can call during the day and talk to Jackie. She has been very helpful to me