Only you can feel that in your heart...is your dog suffering?
As far as the house accidents they make disposable diapers for dogs.
Hard to answer, you have to ask yourself if your dog is in pain?. I had a dog 14, he was in pain and not eating for a week at a time. We took Rocky to the Vet and he had cancer. So I would suggest taking your dog to his or her vet and than make your decision. If you dog is in pain you don't want them to suffer. It's a tough decision.
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