Can I transfer title gifting my car to family member ,I am AAA member

To them for a dollar unless you're trying to deduct it as a tax deduction less paperwork

I transferred title there, its so much easier than at the DMV, even if the person behind the counter seemed to have the same DMV obstructionist mentality.

Yes, .get the form at the DMV.

Im almost certain you can. There are only a handful of specific services you cannot do at AAA... But title, drivers license and registration i believe you can.