Go to findagrave website. It is a volunteer website where people make memorials and add headstone and other photos. You can make a memorial for him, then you can make a photo request and hopefully a volunteer will go photo the grave.
I don't know but I am sorry for your loss.
I am not sure I have what you want. I am a florist. I am not sure why this question came to me.
If i remember they are ordered by years if not then by letters i havent got for a while i am sorry for your loss i hope u find the grave
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