I don't think it's their policy to allow it.
You may be able to wait in their lobby. They do have a few chairs there, but that isn't for sure. You could wait outside but the parking is only for 15 minutes
Yes I agree with Eric call 1st
Military retiress are allowed to use the LAX USO on a space available basis. The staff at the USO may allow you to wait inside since you are waiting for an active military member, but you probably will not be able to use the facilities. I recommend you call them directly to find out.
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