No, not at Edgefield. Either have her get some service too (manicure, haircut, massage) so she can join you. Or go to Ruby's at McMenamins Grand Lodge (in Forest Grove) where she can use the spa pool for $5 though it is 1/5 the size of EdgeField.
If she has a plain white robe and meets you there no one would notice ;)
No, you both have to have some kind of service at the spa.
No, you only use the soaking pool if you use any one of their services.
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