I've noticed the same thing as well, and noticed by the libby in the back people. have used it as a place for a bonfire, and they leave trash back there and more. I also noticed some older graves that have been over grown by grass, leaves and more. I'm sorry your family plot isn't being taken care of, but I believe if you look up a number and call someone and find out why your family plot isn't being taken care of properly
The number for Riverside Cemetary Association is 207-782- 1681.
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