Yes, of course. It's well within your membership premium to have your vehicle towed from Bangor to Carmel.
I would say you probably do. If the car is drivable, you may need to explain the circumstances. Also, towing distances have limits. I have AAA Premium and according to the website each such membership is allowed one tow of up to 200 miles. I would encourage you to call them, they can answer your question specifically. They are very helpful. Usually they require someone to be at the scene prior to towing, but I'm not sure if that would apply to you, in your circumstance.
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