Are you allowed to camp outside the campsites. Ie make your own campsite in the woods. I dont like camping close to others

This is not an option at the State Parks. However, such styles of camping is possible in a National Forest.

I don't think so. There may be backpack sites.

I'm pretty sure that you have to camp in a designated camp site only. During the week they may not be very crowded.

No that is not an option at the state park.

I'm pretty sure they will not allow that.