Garrapata State Park

No it doesn't. You park on the street and just head down to the beach or hiking entrance points. There's no regulated parking.

No, not really anywhere to camp. No water or empty lots.

There's a sign at the entrance that says no dogs, but I see dogs there all of the time.

This park is day use only. There is no camping and no showers. Pfeiffer Big Sur is nearby and they do have camping and showers.

Yes, but very little, which is why when I went last Nov some of the trails were not open yet, that and they had a major amount if damage from heavy rain fall and land slides earlier last year too. Most trails were open by the time I went and I would imagine that all are open by now.

Not needed. Parking is along the street.

Carmel

No. There are no facilities nor locations that can support that kind of activity. Wedding photos, maybe, but definitely not a wedding. Better venue: Pt Pinos Lighthouse in Pacific Grove.

There are no signs that say "no drones allowed"

Dogs are only allowed on the beach if they are on a leash that is 6 ft or less. You can get more information at: parks.ca.gov and enter the name of the park you want to visit.