Is this place 18+? If not, where are there any 18+ country places for dancing?

Yes it's 21 & up, but the best one is U want the music & dance & atmosphere "THE MAVERICK" on Tanque Verde is the best in Tucson, l luv the place to get my boot scoot boogie on 😉👍

then why would the bartender be saying how a family brought a two year old in to bar?

Yes, it's 21 & up & on the north side of town. The Maverick is on the Far East side of town. The Outlaw is a friendly place to be.

Yes 21 and up