Call your nearest Wegmans and ask. If they don't have them, call Rubino's on Ridge Road in Irondequoit. They sell mostly imports from Italy.
If you've checked their app for a particular brand, it would be good to call the location specifically to see if they have them. Different locations carry different items.
You may need to go to an Italian deli for those
Real Torino Lady Fingers. "Low Fat. Low cholesterol. Imported Italian Savoiardi" ... Available at Calkins Rd
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