You can visit and eat without a membership. To drink you, or someone at your table, must be a member.
Anyone can come in to eat, you only have to be a member for drinks!!
It used to be that if you went in the bar side (across from the bocce courts) you didn't need to be a member. They have a slightly smaller menu (for sandwiches etc). If you go to the dining room, I think that you must be a member.
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