Why do they suck at service and dont take care of there employees and there cooks never wear gloves

Why why why? That's the question. Can you say National Chain? Can you say minimum wage? If you don't like it, go elsewhere. Easy peasy bro.

Money is why

I have literally been enlightened by my server as to this being THEIR first job ever as a server.

No clue

I go to the bar order my food and leave , Unless I dine. Hmmmm, how do you know this glove/cook, employees things??