The owners are some of the nicest people I've ever met. I kinda have the opposite problem. I often look like some sort of nerdy accountant and I get looks when I ask "Do you have Dying Fetus on vinyl?" You will not get anything but love here. I came from Ohio and will fly back to come here.
The staff there is very cool. I'm sure you'll be welcome. I don't work there but they have a wide variety of heavy music.
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