If you call this your church home, then I would think being an official member doesn't matter. If you've never been to this church and are expecting them to provide a venue at no charge, then most likely not. Either way, I hope you find a great venue, and congratulations!
Pastor Hawk might want to set up one counseling session seeing he does not know you and your future spouse, to find your wants in your wedding, especially if there are 2 different religions coming together. Honoring and respecting each faiths.
No, there is no requirement for membership before renting a venue for your ceremony/reception
Thanks! Your answer is awaiting moderation.