Why are you asking? I saw people of various races, ethnic groups and sexual orientation all having a great time enjoying beautiful scenery, gardens and furnishings, by one of the most beautiful fingerlakes. This is upstate NY and we have no time for the foolishness you are implying. We still stop when someone needs help, reach out a hand if needed, still hold doors for people, smile, wave hello and appreciate great service.
I don't quite understand the question, but I can tell you that I faced to problems from the staff whatsoever during my time there.
I stayed at Bellhurst a few weeks ago and had a wonderful time there. The staff are really great people and will do anything to make your stay more fun and enjoyable. The area is loaded with vineyards and you could go wine tasting all day long.
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