Yes, there is a section for the cremated. Yes, they can put your wife in with you. You can apply at the office near the plots. In the building on the left side of the road. Bring your DD-214 also. You might be able to get the forms online.
Yes cremation vaults. I'm not sure if you can have the remains contained in the same vault but I think so. I know both can be interned at the same location in the other areas of the cemetery. You can reserve a at the VA office by the Hospital or at the Cemetery.
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