I cannot involve the police. I need a third party that understands alcoholism to help my husband to understand why I am afraid and why he needs to go into a treatment center. I got him to admit it’s so bad he would stop drinking. Then backpedaling to a few beers should be ok. He says he’ll go the the doctor tomorrow about self medicating. I’ve been here before. He won’t go. If I can’t get a surprise visit today, I’m afraid of losing traction.
If you are the abused, your best course of action is probably to make it a police matter. If you are the abuser, call Central Service as they will arrange someone to visit you and talk about alcoholism.
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