He died before you got the food to him??? You can't use it??? Your not upset enough that they died, your not ok to just 'eat' the cost??? Maybe I just dont understand the question... I'd be giving the family cash for the funeral...
Keep it or donate it. Cash back to family
You did a very noble gesture but unfortuently he passed away. I would just keep the food . you paid for it. Or give it to good will in his name. Either way your not wrong doing either.
Thanks! Your answer is awaiting moderation.