If your posting about St Vincent's, Providence , I can assure you that they did the best with your girlfriend. My heart goes out to you for your loss of your girlfriend. If you're suffering so much, have you thought of prayer, seeking out religious or lay counseling for grief?
They let my brother down, too. Ugly death. When they cut the power to his heart pump, my brother told me the doctors nearly ran away, and didn't look at him. So compassion is not this place's strong point.
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