If i am a guess at the hotel can I have friends come swim or would they have to be a guess too?

It's yourself plus three. They give like 4 armbands per room depending on who's there with you.

Yes you can have uo to 4 guest to swim

I don't know, mostly family are with us and they get their own rooms within the Paragon.

They would have to be guest. You have to have a arm band to get into the pool area & a room key card to get thru the door.

are there microwave in room