My wife & I would be first timers and totally new, is it a comfortable place to do this first time, can she just be topless at first?

Yes it is fun for me to just go I can be naked all the time Im a nudes okay

Yes this is an adult only camping . Nudist and lifestyle co mengele. And isn't mandatory. To be a member. .

My wife and I go often, most of time I lose all clothing quickly and she stays more conservative. No pressure by anyone, undress (or don't) as you feel comfortable.