Can i order from a different state and have it picked up in oxford Ohio by someone else

As stated above, yes, but they have to be designated as the pick up person.

You have to make sure you specify the person's name who is picking it up. When they pick up thenitem, the should take their ID and a copy if the receipt.

Yes you can. They just have to be on your pickup list.

I'm not sure, but I see no reason why you couldn't.