Birthday cakes are one of those things that as long as you dont get someone on a bad day you can take anywhere. Don't completely ignore their kitchen/ bar, but it's not like they have birthday cake on the menu. I'd just call and say you are celebrating a birthday, is it ok if you bring a cake, if they say no, call back another time, to get someone that isn't having a rough day
As far as I know you can
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