To the best of my knowledge you should be able to just go, I havent heard of anyone reserving anything there. As far as food, you can definitely bring food and drinks in, just be sure to take all trash out with you. I would call DCR regarding grilling there. They would be able to answer your questions better.
I'm fairly sure you don't have to rent it, you just need to reserve it.
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