New York is really strict. We are nearly 50 and we had to show I'd before going in. I don't think you can drink in there at all. But when we were in there about 3.30pm there was a family in there with toddlers. But they could of been staying at the hotel. Hope this helps.
They check for ID even before going to the roof top. So both of you have to be 21:/
I think for the age groups 17-21 only time allowed is for brunch. 21+ don't have any restrictions.
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