I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm in Seaside and my friends neighbor just passed too.. I think it had to have been your brother now that I think about it. Stay strong, and again I'm sorry
Go to the post office in Seaside Heights and explain the situation and I'm almost positive they can start the process to have the mail forwarded. If they can't do that then they will tell you where to do it.
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