My husband is an african american, and naturally endowed (not the biggest- but flacid prob 9")- and becomes aroused rather easily, will he be looked at or discriminated against? Also I have a groomed... is that ok?

Hi Natalie, unfortunately this is not Germany or Sweden, where coed spas are all au natural and people are grown-up and uninhibited and nonjudgmental. This is America - home of the Puritans. There is not one coed spa here where folks of all genders can be in the nude together. There are a couple of nudist colonies here and there in remote desert areas, but that's it. Olympic spa is for WOMEN ONLY, and I'm happy to say that no one judges' or body shames anyone there. Wii spa is coed, but, yes, women and men are on separate floors, and they are required to wear (very uncomfortable) shorts and t-shirts on the coed floor where the napping floor, cafeteria and all the dry saunas and ice room are. Personally, it's not for me. I don't come to a spa to wear someone else's uncomfortable clothes. There's also Beverly Hot Springs, but it's a similar scenario - women and men are separated. So, that's what you have to contend with. Sorry.

The Olympic Spa is a women-only establishment. In my experience, there are women of every shape, color, and age.

Women only spa, no men. Wii spa is coed but separate floors.