my buddy cant walk too far is there a restroom close to the bar in the restaurant or use the one at the restaurant entrance hostess podium ?

There's a restroom right outside the entrance to the restaurant. Very close.

Yes you could even ride a power scooter if needed be

There's a restroom less than 20' from Speely Dan's restaurant

On the other wall across from the bar. Not too far away.

There is a restroom to for your buddy as well as well chair access ♿ while he is there.

Not there is only facilities inside