If my parent brings my receipt and product back can they do an exchange for me even if I paid for it off my credit card that is no longer active??

As long as it's an exchange the only thing needed is the receipt.

yes and being it's exchange, they will not have tok issue a refund

Probably not

I just want an exchange not a refund

Yes

Yes but please let the customer service agent know upfront because when you pay by credit/debit card they like to do a reversal of funds back to the card used at point of sale.